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Post by runamuckchuck on Nov 2, 2024 23:54:19 GMT
Most if not all of us have had senior high school yearbooks. In an earlier era when college attendance was not only encouraged but expected for those anointed in the 'academic' path for many in the 'technical' or commercial' rather than 'academic' programs their senior high school yearbook marked the climax of their formal public education. For us going on to college, the senior high school yearbook was expected to be a footnote.
Many years ago, I destroyed my junior and senior high school yearbooks. There was obviously some anger there. I never looked back.
But recently my senior yearbook showed up on Ebay and I was determined to bid/win it which I did.
Today it arrived and in looking at the various photos I was struck that my most heartfelt reaction was not for my classmates, but for the high school faculty.
The guidance counselor who listened, the history teacher who encouraged his alma mater to accept me, the English teacher who pushed me to excel, the science teacher who said that he always knew I had that certain something to be better than what I seemed, the drama arts teacher who gave me a part in play for reasons that I still do not understand, the gym teacher who encouraged me to never pursue a sports career. You get the idea. Each of them saw something in me that I did not know that I had; and only because they looked and cared.
How different my life might have/would have been without these truly dedicated educators?
This has nothing to do with trains or hobbies, or anything other than how we ended up to be the people we are because of the people in our lives; especially our grade school/junior/high school teachers and faculty members who never seem to get the credit they deserve except in our memories and appreciation.
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Post by healey36 on Nov 3, 2024 13:24:35 GMT
I totally agree; a great instructor can be and often proves to be a life-changer. The number of really terrific instructors I had in high school I can count on one hand...college even less. But those that were, still come to mind more than 50 years later.
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Post by af3020 on Nov 3, 2024 13:40:53 GMT
On that same line - there are also those people not directly associated with formal education who do the same thing. One I think about from time to time was a nameless librarian in charge of a very small library in one of the many towns our family lived in who introduced me to the world via the magic of interlibrary loans - I was all of 10 years old.
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Post by dennym57 on Nov 3, 2024 13:46:30 GMT
For me it was my high school music teacher. He was hard on us, but because of that we were the #1 marching band in Chicago. I'm not in any of the year books because I cut class instead of going to get my picture taken.
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Post by healey36 on Nov 3, 2024 14:05:40 GMT
On that same line - there are also those people not directly associated with formal education who do the same thing. Absolutely. While in college, I worked summers at a local building supply company...learned more of value and met more folks of influence than in any academic environment. At night I helped out at a small auto repair shop that specialized in foreign cars. The place was owned/run by a German guy that came to this country with nothing, shortly after WWII. Learned as much about the value of hard work from him as I did from my father. I've been lucky to have these guys' shoulders to stand on.
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Post by keithb on Nov 4, 2024 9:59:03 GMT
Thanks for sharing this.
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Post by harborbelt70 on Nov 4, 2024 12:12:41 GMT
Ditto from me. It's so long ago that I was in High School that I can only remember a few teachers but they were the ones that mattered.
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Post by curtis on Nov 4, 2024 15:24:04 GMT
Wow This brought back a flood of memories about teachers. Funny story: When in 8th grade they took you to the high school guidance counselor to pick your courses to guide through the path of high school to your dream vocation. Move ahead to my Junior year. My Modern Algebra teacher Mrs. Layton. She was staying after school 3 days a week trying to help me so I could pass. Finally about three quarters of the way through the year she sat down with me and told me the bad news. Curtis, you aren't getting math. It just isn't you. Nothing to be ashamed of. What do you want to be after you graduate? Well in my frustration I yelled out I couldn't see where I needed any of the courses I had been struggling with (c- and d's of f's, other than her. She refused to give me an f so created a d- for me). Heck, where is the train going to go? It is on steel rails. Her mouth dropped open and she said "What did you say? What do you want to be?" My reply, A train Engineer! She started crying and told me to come with her. We went to the guidance office and she got my guidance counselor. "Do you know what this young man wants to be when he leaves high school?" Well, the counselor looked in my file and replied Engineer!" Her reply back was "Curtis please tell her what type of engineer you want to be." Again I replied "Train Engineer". Well need less to say I graduated and my senior year was the only Year I graduated with all A's or B's. It was like a vacation. I knew everything since I was just taking general courses of math and all the other subjects. As for Mrs. Layton, I went to visit her when I was in my low 50's. She had been newly married and pregnant with their first child in my Junior year. She was a knock out even being pregnant and still was in her golden years. I started to tell her my story when asked who I was and the biggest smile came across her face. She rose from the chair came over and gave me a hug. After asking what became of me and was I an engineer, I replied no but I was a mechanic and farming, had done retail management at the local Western Auto, Worked for Yamaha, John Deere, and an Electrical motor repair shop, Done HVAC and drove tractor trailer. Doing several at one time. (My accountant hated me. I would show up with 3 to 5 W4's every tax time. I don't ever remember having just one job at a time.)
So YES I do remember some of my teachers, but Mrs. Layton will always be tops for trying to help a stupid old farm kid who loved trains. She was the top of teaching because she really cared!
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Post by Adam on Nov 4, 2024 15:44:34 GMT
What a wonderful thread. I actually have little memory from high school aside from about 4 really good friends and about 3 memorable and wonderful teachers. The rest of what I remember I don't think I want to remember. Same reason I don't have a Facebook account. I haven't looked at my yearbook in a long time. Maybe it's time to give it a gander.
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Post by runamuckchuck on Nov 4, 2024 15:54:07 GMT
As Paul Harvey used to say; and now the rest of the story. My mother was my homeroom teacher for all 4 years of High School. It get's worse. We were seated alphabetically. My desk was in the front row directly in front of my mother's desk. It was one of the more painful aspects of my high school experience other than gym class.
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Post by runamuckchuck on Nov 4, 2024 15:56:14 GMT
What a wonderful thread. I actually have little memory from high school aside from about 4 really good friends and about 3 memorable and wonderful teachers. The rest of what I remember I don't think I want to remember. Same reason I don't have a Facebook account. I haven't looked at my yearbook in a long time. Maybe it's time to give it a gander. Absolutely take a gander. It will take years off your life immediately at least in your memory. Better than a swig of Geritol!
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Post by Adam on Nov 4, 2024 15:58:54 GMT
What a wonderful thread. I actually have little memory from high school aside from about 4 really good friends and about 3 memorable and wonderful teachers. The rest of what I remember I don't think I want to remember. Same reason I don't have a Facebook account. I haven't looked at my yearbook in a long time. Maybe it's time to give it a gander. Absolutely take a gander. It will take years off your life immediately at least in your memory. I.....MUST.....RESIST
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Post by runamuckchuck on Nov 4, 2024 16:07:20 GMT
Absolutely take a gander. It will take years off your life immediately at least in your memory. Better than a swig of Geritol! I.....MUST.....RESIST
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Post by atsda on Nov 6, 2024 15:09:01 GMT
Chuck, thanks for that meaningful recollection. It is true how HS teachers had an impact in forming us. (Except for my high school chemistry teacher, who got it all wrong.) Alfred
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